Self improvement and success

Posted by MOHAMAD ILHAM | 8:51 PM

What happens to us happens in purpose. And sometimes, lead to one thing and one another. Instead of securing himself in a cage of fear of pain, and tears in the past, and shame and failure, and dealing with them as a teacher and they will become your tools in both self improvement and success.

I remember watching Patch Adams - from favorite movies, actually. In a big movie and that will help you to improve yourself. Hunter "Patch" Adams is one of the medical students who have failed to achieve this through the board exams. After months of suffering in the depression and sadness, and suicide attempts - has decided to seek medical assistance and voluntarily admitted him in a psychiatric hospital. Month-month stay in the hospital made the meeting a variety of people. The patient in this case. Meet with the lame, and mentally retarded, schizophrenic, and so on. Patch to find a way to treat personal pain, and finally realized that to get back on track. I woke up one morning after realizing that every failure and pain he went through, he still wanted to be a doctor. He brought the same positive attitude that brought him to self-improvement and success. Not only improved himself, but also in the lives of those around him, and the quality of life. But it does not work? Needless to say, the best damn doctor his country has ever known.

Therefore, if there is no self improvement become synonymous with success? Where to start? Take this advice, and friends ...
* Stop thinking and feeling, as if you are a failure, because you do not. How others accept you if you are unable to accept you?

* When you see the blocks and models on TV, and think more in self-improvement, not self-loving. Self-acceptance, not only the existence of a good slender legs, or access and benefit sharing large. The focus on inner beauty.

* When people feel so down and low about themselves, and help them move upwards. Not down with that. This will attract further from the bottom, and both will end up with feelings of inferiority.

* The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. I do not feel stupid and doomed forever just because you have failed in science competition. There is always next time. Making room for improvement.

* Take one thing at a time. Do not expect to be the black sheep shoes, Judy, and two only in a blink of an eye. Self-improvement is one day at a time.

* Self-improvement in internal stability, and personal development and explore.... this success. This comes from self confidence, self-esteem and self-esteem.

* Set goals that are meaningful and achievable. Self-improvement does not turn into a replica of Cameron Diaz or Ralph Fiennes. Destination hope that it will lead to better and better for you.

* Little things mean much to anyone else. Sometimes, we do not realize that the little things we do like a pat on the back, saying "hello" or "hello", greeting someone "good day" or telling Mr. Smith something like "Hey, I like the tie!" P. which means a lot simpler for others. We appreciate when they are in the things around us beautiful and others, and we also become beautiful to them.

* When you are ready to accept the changes and go through the process of self improvement and this does not mean that all other people. The world is a place where people from the values and attitudes different to hang out. In some cases, even if you think you and your friends always wanted to do the same thing together at the same time, they tend to reject an invitation for self improvement.

We must always remember that nothing is like the 'over night success'. And always a wonderful feeling to defend the things that you have now, realize that this is just one of the things that would. Very nice quote says that "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." We are all here to learn lessons. And parents, school teachers, friends and colleagues, colleagues, and neighbors ... Their teachers. When we opened the doors for self improvement, and we increase the chance to go to the road to success.

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